Tuesday, May 20, 2014
Ten Things To Understand About Living With A Chronic Illness
1. People always say "You are too young to be in that much pain!" Chronic illnesses do not discriminate! It does not matter your age, race, gender, or where you live. All children, adolescents, young adults, adults, and the elderly are at a risk of developing and managing a chronic illness.
6. Do not pity us. We can do most everything you can do. We just have some extra challenges in the way. It may take some extra time but we will get there eventually. That pity makes us feel like you miss out on all the amazing things we can. Try not to focus on the "I can't" and look at what an amazing person we really are. We get enough pity from random strangers and we do not need it from friends and family.
7. If you don't know about our disease ask! We will be more than happy to explain it to you so you can understand more about our condition. Information found online may not be entirely accurate or related to the specific diagnosis we have. Never assume that you know it all when more than likely you don't! So please do not come up to us saying you've found our miracle cure because more than likely you haven't!
8. Most importantly we are not lazy. Many with chronic illnesses deal with chronic fatigue and that just wears us out to start with! Imagine if you were fighting a battle against your own body. Your body has to do both parts of the fighting here! Can you imagine how much energy that takes? We try to keep caught up with work and school and not stay in bed and sleep all the time but it does get hard.
9. "If only you would exercise more!" I've heard this one too many times before. Your physical strength does play a role in chronic illnesses but trust me we try to keep pushing through and do as much as we can! However our disease can limit the amount of energy and strength we have so this makes exercising difficult. There are some chronic illnesses which require the patient to not exercise at all! Often times exercise can make chronic illnesses worse. The patient's physician will be able to tell whether exercise would be beneficial.
10. "If only you were more positive! Then you would feel better." Everyday we wake up and put on a brave face, smile, and act like nothing is wrong. People with chronic illnesses are some of the bravest, happiest people I've ever met! They love life for what it is because they all know life is short and you don't get an extra chance! It is hard to be positive everyday when nothing ever seems to go right and you're in so much pain. Everyone is entitled to a mental breakdown every once in a while.